Don't take-on more than you can handle!

If this can be any advice to anyone,even the smallest person of our planet. There can be times when your a stress level rises more than usual.

As I am completing my last three semesters-I find myself becoming stressed. I tend to stray away from getting my hands tied to the point where there is no stress being involved in my domain of a daily routine,yet I realized that maybe stress isn't so bad after all,or is it?

I have come to realize without actually realizing...that if you take on more than you can handle you tend to be more stressed.

I try keep myself occuppied outside of the norm "schol," which is my normal routine!

Like to keep busy,but then again if I become too busy I tend to get stressed!...Ironic ...HUH?

I guess when you ask for more you get more,and then when you recieve you tend to not want what you had before anymore!

Needless to say, my time spent at school is worthwhile,yet I'm content to say that I have been recently exposed to the real-world,and it can be very stressful.

So, with that said my lesson I take with this current issue i'm facing at hand is "Don't take on more tahn you can handle".

persistance pays off!!

Did you ever want something so bad,you worked harder than ever before?


Did you struggle to prove something?


How tedious and overwhelming that somethin was?


Well...pesistance pays off!


Sure...you certain that whatever it was was just going to be right for you!


When you sit-back,relax,and just questioned what ,why,and how ?


The answer is Persistance pays off!!


If you Nagg at yourself, pushing yourself making things seem inpossible what happens in the end?

Persistance pays off!

Just keep trying...in the end it will all make perfect sense...why things happened the way they did,and for the purposes it happened!

Amendment 8

I rarely talk about politics,or anything dealing with politics outside of the home,but for this moment,year,and election the only time i will probably mention about politics is through ammendemt 8.

As a Local College Student, I intend to hopfully get others to vote for ammendemnt 8 If passed, Amendment 8 creates a process for local communities to impact the future of their community colleges. Supporting Amendment 8 won’t cost voters a cent.Amendment 8 offers a practical and positive solution: Let local communities decide by referendum how to support community colleges.

Voters to decide on Amendment 8

finding who you are....

The life that has been given to you; do you question it?

The people in your life ,Do you question their existence?

Do you you question yourself?...i'm sure everyday!

For some it takes a life's century,for others it takes an experience.

How do you "Find yourself"?

The unthinkable things can make you discover who you are as a person.

Why do want to find who you are?

What will it take for you to realize, who you are is what has made you.

Finding who you are, if you don't really know comes from...

The experiences you've come through

The challenges you face ahead...

The people around you...

The mind, body and soul.

So, finding who you are is not that complicated, it's actually simple.

We learn something new of ourselves everyday...

Not by chance,but my destiny ,and courage to face the unthinkable.

When you find yourself, your that much richer in life because you know who you are.

Now, I know sometimes you may not find an ounce of who you are, in reality you are,but you just don't know it :D!!!!!!

change,for no one

If the true meaning of who we really are gives us the power to get motivated,then life would be less complicated.I was speaking with a friend one day,and she told me something that i often hear people say to me..."Change for no one".

I stay true to who i am and i sometimes have to catch myself in the way i react,or say something.Many people know me as a humble, caring person;in which i am 80-95% of the time that i have been here alive...I had to complete a self-performance activity a couple of semesters ago ...which i had to do for my psychology class. I found that assignment very intresting because i was able to hear nothing,but the TRUTH from which i surveyed on my family & friends on "why they were my friends and /or why they loved me"?...Of course i told them to be truthful,but never did i imagine how such a positive response i got even from my FAMILY MEMBER( who lives with me and see everything i've gone through)!!!;Needless to say, I was shocked and filled with humbleness...
The response that i got was "change for no one",and why they loved me or why they are my friend was because i am an Honest, caring ,sincere,mother-like positive, understanding,kind-hearted person...Just to name a few!

Now, this was coming out of their OWN mouths,i didn't tell them what to say...Everytime i think of something when i am down & sad, i remember that assignment & what my friends and family told me. So, I realized how important that quote is to me because they love me for who i am and i'm proud to say i returned that love and apperciation back at them, telling them what i think of them.

Why do you love your family or friends ? care to share?...

Change

"change is good"

what is change?

Change...is a word that signifies alot!

Keeping change in mind,helps us...


Do we fear change?...No we embrace it!

Knowledge is within us all

Knowledge is within us all,and staying focus is the key to sucess,gudience gravites towards the lost soul. If You think sucessful,so the outcome will be,yet caught-off guard by the distractions of life;it is only fair they we must face was is the truth! Knowledge is within us all...Becoming the risk-taker,giveing it your all,or nothing.Knowledge is within us all...Dear dream big goals of where you see yourself,yet anticipate the day when the goal will be reached.

Obstacles 1,2,3 are keeping you from the achievements & rewards life is going to give you,but don't be intimidated by the fear,look through the fear ,and embrace he sucess,after all has been done.

Knowledge is within us all some way,differnt ways...
Do not be intimidated by fear,look through the fear,and embrace the sucess becaise knowledge is within us all...
In order to be a stronger person we must face our enemies that thrive for our failures.
"Give them a run for their money"
Show the will & drive that is possed inside!
Beyond what others think your sucess is hardwork ,let no envevous person tell you differently.
Believing that sucess is achieved through sweat,dedicated,and doing your best.
Knowledge is within us all,pushing forward...taking"charge of YOU,who you are...
You move foward each day that goes by ...Your knowlege & wisdom is everythin,despite what some may argue...

what are "friends"

I have associates, good people,close friends, then there are "Friends"...

You may define a "Friend" differently: someone who's constantly by your side in times of need,or perhaps they are just a person whom you have a descent conversation with?My defintion, well it's complicated I've had my Up's & down's with the people I call "friends". Need I not mention the word betrayal.
I'm the type of person who loves to meet new people ,and enjoy those who take the time to care for others...that's me !!
But, I've learned not to " trust someone to fast" because of the betrayal one can recieve in the end.
During my adolescent years, I was introduced to numerous people, some of them who remained my "close friends" till this day,yet some who ultimately took advantage of me,but I realized the hard way how someone you barely know can show their"true colors",and ultimately betray you;needless to say today, i choose my friends "very wisely and carefully" Today, i stay to myself,but I only have a hand-full of friends.
I learned who my "REAL" friends are,and there are times I even doubt someone... I kind of test the waters,but i think the key to my unsucessful friendships during my school-years is the fact that i'm too "easy-going and Nice" at least that what my friends say...I've been taken advantage of to many times ... and i've learned my lesson "the Hard-Way".
If there was a time-machine, to back in time i would change the way people took advantage of me; the reality is i can't ,and i hurt when it has been done, I have a caring ,sensitive heart and soul,and i believe that's why things happen the way that they do... especially with "friends"!!!!!

Mgs: Choose your friends wisely,never underestimate a person!

Today,Tomorrow,and Questions

Today...Is here

Tomorrow... may not exist

Yesturday ... Is gone



I often wonder what is...Why things happen the way they do ?

I alway question... asking why?

The way things work...Do the lessons being taught make any use in the future?

Today, i see a person ,but tomorrow who know what's to come?

Today, the reality sets-in what if...?

There are possiblities, making me wonder about what life means and where its' goin to take me.

When I ask my questions, I learn ,but any professor who has had me can tell you i ask questions!

I do the best for today ,but cautiously wait for the answer to my questions.

Who knows what's going to happen tomorrow , i can only see what's going to happen this MOMENT,or TODAY !!

I sit and i often wonder where my answers are going to take me ? ...

I see the present & i anticipate the future,my questions often give a sense of why i make thedecisions that I do .

In Six Words

I was recently challenged byFeearless Blog to write my own memoir in six words,well my quote may sound simple,but there is a personal & miraclous story that is beneath the six words about to be mentioned,so here it goes:

"Live Each Day, To its' fullest"


Now, I challenge you the reader to come up with your own "six words"

Live,love ,laugh

Live:"Live for the moment"

love:keep your heart open.

Laugh: laugh rather than cry.

Each day i count my blessings because i am "a Miracle".

So,each day that i am grateful to see, each hurdle of obstacles i cross...

I LIVE, LOVE ,AND LAUGH!



I do the best i can with everything that i am given.

God has blessed me in so many ways that i sometimes ask myself what have i done to deserve the good deeds.

I live life to its fullest, i love the people who give me so much ,but ask for nothing in return,and i laugh at those who say "It couldn't be done", to prove that obstacles can be achieved.

i live for today,and not for tomorrow;needless to say, i love those who advise me in with critical dose of reality,and i laugh at the obstacles that try to keep me down.

learning the history...

America is full of diversity and charisma! we have our Native Americans,Latinos,African-Americans,middle eastern,islanders etc.I love to meet new people from different cultures because i get to learn new languages and the richness of their particular culture.
i recently had to write a paper based on Barack Obama & what his candidacy says about race relations in america! For me it was the toughest paper i have EVER wriiten,yet with a little help and research i found out a lot of intresting history between what occured in the 1950's & 1960's ,and how it has "Improved" today. I learned what minorities had to go through, and how awful things were back then. It made me realize how fortunate people in my age range are lucky.

The youth today is so involved with technology and other things; they do not have time to sit down and learn their history. Now i must admit i am part of this group,but i love history.It is said quote: "If you don't know your history,it will repeat itself". Many young people will not pay attention to this quote it seems as if many don't really care. I decided to write this piece because as a young person i am aware of how people minds shift to sterotypes if something goes wrong. But,the whole understanding is taking the lessons learned and using it!

Generally, i believe what is brought to your attention is supposed to teach you something useful. On the other hand, it could just be "A MIRACLE" that what a person is taught and they don't take in accordance to what being taught because they simply don't understand!
Back to what i was orignally saying, Many of us don't know our history and how we reach hear to have a diverse nation ... for one i am greatful for writing this essay because it taught some valuable lessons of how many people were humilated! lets keep moving forward to bigger and better things!

Creating Positive Thinking :

There are times we feel very fustrated, and not being capable of accomplishing a goal. Here are a couple of steps to positive thinking that i am going to share with you:


Step1: Never Give Up !

Step2: Think Positive!

Step3: DO Positive things !

Step4:Picture yourself accomplishing that particular goal.

Step5:Take one day at a time

Step6:Take "I CAN'T" out of your vocabulary.

Step7: Stay Focused ( don't get off track)!

Step8:Don't let Fear take over you

Step9: Do what you intution tells you!

Step10:Breath ... ( the results should be rewarding)

Good luck on your accomplished goal i guarentee this should help you !

a new beginning

The holiday season is here and as the new year is approachinglife cannot be more sweet than to start a new begiining! life has its up's and down's and i remember all that occurred both personally and educationally there were times when life pulled and unbelieveable hurt me , but life has a times where it helps me to grow stronger . When the obstacles are faced and life throughs a " curve Ball" i hesitate with a timid approach , yet i know life has something greater planned for me in the year of 2008 !

My career path is unfortunately not the right choice for me, yet despite my falls and my desire to improve ; i have become a stronger person, So needless to say, in the year of a new beginning i must rejuvenate my mind to a new career path which may be the outcome that i have patiently waited for . unbeknown to me i have discovered through perservance and dedicated i can improve,yet the career path i decided maynot fortunately direct me the right path to my career i have dreamed of since a child .

here is to a new begining of new outcomes who know what could happen next ?

Doing the best you can

How does one cope with the enemies within life ! Yet it is said one can achieve many goals?
When one thinks of the hurdles;the triumphant goal that is about to be faced.

How do you conquer the fear within you ?

How do you move-on ,yet when you've done best you can and it still does not satify you, Creating a vivid picture of your accomplishments to come...
taking one day at a time ; leaving your negativity behind; however, life is full of negativity !
Doing the best you can ; your dreams are slowly becoming reality ,but life is steadily throwing curve balls your way ! your showing that you can , yet life is literally pulling you down ... yet your ALWAYS doing the best you can!

Life is a Challange

One can dream ...
One can believe ...
Yet when life is a challange,one is blinded to the fact there is no easy road.
Why does life have curve balls ? tomorrow is no guarentee ,so how does one deal with life and its challenges ? taking "one day at a time".
When God planned on what he brought us into the world he took "A challenge" Beautiful Life how it is plan to see that you are a challenge!